Thank you Jez. I have been reading here for years. This was one of the many things I located years ago when I cemented for my husband that I was not some "apostate" or whatever he said I was. That I was simply sane. He was on the fence when we met. 8 years later, he can deck the halls better than anyone I know, and now goes to a non-denominational church. The one thing my mother -in-law said that surprised me, as I was raised catholic, was, in refrence to the Pope. She said, oh, it's very sad. I am not catholic, but he did many good things, and he had strong beliefs. Her husband was not there when she said that, or she would never HAVE said that, but my husband says that the father is more gung ho than the mother, and it's true. When she gets going toward buying the kids a gift, or giving money for the teeth they lose, he looks at her correctively.
Hope to see more of everyone.